Then you have alcohol. A bipolar person simply shouldn’t drink at all. However I personally drink an occasional glass of wine without repercussions. Remember that the variables are vast in management of bipolar disorder and each person is unique in symptoms and treatment.
Next meditation and spirituality go a long way, I pray each day upon waking. I meditate later in the day. I can not stress enough of how God has helped me. I realize not all share my view in regard to God. But hey it’s all personal and more importantly what works for you. I will say that when I didn’t pray and have faith, I was not a happy camper, and all the meds in the world did not make a difference.
Today I’m on an extremely low dose of meds. I only take 250mg of Lamictal, and 100 mg of Trazadone, Xanax only when needed. My meds are mild in comparison to others I know. It was not always like this for me. But prayer and spirituality centered me. Changed me.
Now if any of the above is not being followed to the best of ones ability, it’s gonna be one hell of a ride.
To answer your question, yes it can be done. But the management is a hit and miss. One has to be diligent in order to stay with the realm of reality, and to thwart mood swings.
What you are explaining almost sounds like rapid cycling. Truly your spouse needs to manage the disorder more closely than I suspect he actually is.
Also no form of violence should be tolerated. Period. None. I can’t stress that enough. Every time you over look physical violence it will increase in severity each time after until a deathly outcome may be achieved. You don’t want that, no one does. But a person in mania or hypo mania does not use logic or have the filter in place that those who don’t suffer mental illness have. So I severely stress again no violence tolerated!
I highly recommend couples counseling. A temporary separation while his medical issues are worked out and managed better. Also you should accompany him to a few psychiatric visits. Why? Because your reality needs to be offered up to the doctor not just his in order to be treated properly.
Besides this is a team effort. Support helps.
Research and read. Here are two books I highly recommend. This one is like a handbook for bipolar people.
Next one is ~Madness~ Marya Hornbacher does a phenomenal job of giving the perspective of a manic bipolar person. I just recently finished this book.
I will tell you, both books will give great insight and ideas to you and your spouse.
Now the flip side. If he does not take treatment seriously, and does not manage his bipolar, then the answer to your question is a firm and loud NO!
You will not be able to lead any type of happy normal relationship and life unless steps are implemented and treatment is followed.
It took 3 and a half years to get my life right. Lots of loss and heartache along the way. Many relationships lost. Financial trouble.. Just huge mess. Even jail time.
If I can be of any further assistance please reach out to me via private message. I am more than willing to help in any way I can, and point you into the right directions.
Also get online and look for support groups in your area.
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Thank you for you blog. You really help people. Thanks again.
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Thank you for taking the time to read it thank you.
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Thank you for an on-point, thorough and succinct explanation of how to manage bipolar disorder. God bless you.
Truly thank you. I’m trying to be a voice for this disorder. It’s run in my family history for awhile. Trying to write a book, but blogging first to get my feel, and my audience. Again Thank you.
I wish you the best as you engage your audience and start writing your book. I, too, have thought that some day, some year, I may gather the writing I’m doing on my blog and massage it into a book.
It’s truly a process. I’ve only been public about this subject 1 year. What is the biggest challenge for me is piecing together my thoughts, often times, I will be so inspired and full of great ideas and feeling confident I can convey it well in my writing, But much to my dismay it’s not always that way. I’m sure you can relate.
There are days that my thoughts are so fragmented. On those days it is my best time to write poetry. It’s the only way to express the jumbled up thoughts. I carry my iPhone in my pocket at all times so I can jot down thoughts before they escape me. I look forward to more interaction and sharing with you. I’m really really new to the WordPress world. Thank you for the great thoughts and positive feedback.
Yes, poetry does lend itself to those more disturbing and fragmented thoughts. I, too, find myself jotting them down at odd hours on my iPhone or iPad.